When booking an escort, it’s important to be respectful, professional, and mindful of both your safety and the escort’s well-being. Here are some key do’s and don’ts to keep in mind:
Do’s:
Research Reputable Agencies or Independents – Choose an escort from a trusted agency or a well-reviewed independent provider. Look for verified profiles and real testimonials.
Read Their Advert and Website Thoroughly – Escorts list their services, rates, and expectations clearly. Make sure you understand their offerings and follow their booking instructions.
Be Polite and Respectful – Treat the escort with the same courtesy you’d expect in any professional or social interaction. Address them respectfully in your communication.
Confirm Availability and Rates Upfront – Discuss the fee structure beforehand to avoid confusion. Never try to negotiate rates unless explicitly allowed.
Respect Their Boundaries and Rules – Every escort has personal preferences and boundaries. Make sure you adhere to them at all times.
Maintain Good Hygiene – Showering, grooming, and fresh breath are basic courtesies. Some escorts may require you to shower upon arrival.
Be Honest About Your Expectations – If you have specific requests, communicate them clearly in advance to avoid misunderstandings.
Ensure Payment is Ready – Have the agreed-upon fee in cash (or follow their preferred payment method) and be prepared to hand it over discreetly at the start of the meeting.
Be Discreet and Respect Privacy – Escorts value their privacy. Don’t ask for personal details or disclose their information to others.
Follow Up with a Respectful Review (if appropriate) – If the escort allows reviews, leaving a respectful and professional one can help both them and other clients.
Don’ts:
Don’t Haggle or Disrespect Pricing – Rates are set for a reason. Attempting to negotiate can come off as disrespectful and is often a red flag.
Don’t Expect Anything Beyond the Agreed Service – An escort is not a girlfriend/boyfriend or therapist. Keep the interaction within the agreed-upon service.
Don’t Overstay Your Time – Your booking covers a set duration. If you’d like to extend, ask politely and be prepared to pay extra.
Don’t Arrive Drunk or High – Many escorts have strict no-intoxication policies for their own safety and comfort.
Don’t Be Aggressive or Pushy – Pressuring an escort for services they don’t offer is inappropriate and can end the booking immediately.
Don’t Take Photos or Videos Without Consent – Recording someone without their permission is a major violation of privacy.
Don’t Stalk or Harass Them Afterwards – Once the session is over, respect their boundaries. Avoid excessive messaging or trying to initiate personal relationships.
Don’t Engage in Unsafe Practices – Always follow safety guidelines set by the escort, particularly regarding protection and health.
By following these do’s and don’ts, you’ll ensure a smooth and mutually respectful experience.